Simon Hughes

My cousin came to visit me in the office because he have a problem with his wife. He wants to have someone to talk to so I gave him my sympathy and tried to comfort him. My cousin is a very good person and I know that he is a responsible husband. I was surprised at first when he said that he has a problem with his married life.

Don’t hold on because you think there will be no one else. There will ALWAYS be someone else. you’ve got to believe your worth more than being repeatedly hurt by someone who doesn’t really care and believe that someone will see what your really worth and treat you the way you should be treated.

Love changed me the way I think, the way I act, the way I decide. Sometimes, I even go against my principles and beliefs in life. Loving doesn’t mean I’ll be happy always, sometimes all it provides me is pain and misery yet I was blinded by strong emotions that I failed to see reality. Sometimes, letting go is the answer and it hurts like hell but I will soon relized that it’s better to see the person I love to be with someone else than lonely with me.

Sometimes its much better for us to care than to love.

Coz when you care, you’re safe from losing the person you care for.

But when you love, you can lose everything you’re scared of losing forever.

love is such a clueless cycle of pain & happiness..
u’l never know what will happen next..
sometimes it brings out smiles,
but causes tears afterwards..
but we never give up though we’ve been hurt a lot..
maybe because it’s just a great feeling to cry
then someone will come to wipe off your tears..
or to break into pieces while someone is breaking his/her
own into pieces just to make you whole again..

“in life we often question why things happen, but just like in novels that we read, its because the great story is just about to begin. i always question life not knowing that the best is yet to come..”

sometimes, i want to let the hands of the clock be stopped everytime i am happy. i want to hide the hourglass just to make myself believe that moments would not end.. but i never did such, for i realized, there are also those who wanted the hands of the clock to move.. for every strike of it would mean a little recovery from pains for those who had bad memories in the past and wishes that the hands of the clock will tick faster

There will come a point in your life when you’ll get tired of chasing everyone, trying to fix everything. It’s not giving up, it’s just a realization that you don’t need certain people and all of their freaking drama..

when your hurt, it’s ok to flirt, to date, to hate, to mingle with other people, to drink, to cry, to laugh out loud, to scream and to dance wild. you know why? because when you are hurt you don’t owe anybody any explanation on how you choose to repair what that person broke. live your as you wish.. until your whole again..

When you love, never stick only to what your heart feels.
Sometimes using your brain is a necessity.
Next, never use your eyes to cry for the person who fooled you, instead
use it to search for the right one.
Don’t be scared of breaking up, keeping a relationship with a selfish partner is scarier.
Love the one who will fight for you and bravely face each and every consequences.
Love the one who will accept you and loves you more despite great mistakes you did.
Love the one who will hold on. Someone who would never let the feelings be gone.
Love is a gift and not an obligation..

once..
i loved,
i believed,
i trusted,
i failed,
i cried,
i moved on..
den i loved again..
i invested,
i exerted,
i hoped,
i fought..
but eventually..
i became weak,
i got tired,
i let go..
love doesn’t always
succeed, but it always teach
us to let go if we can no
longer hold on.
true enough, not everyone has
a happy ending..
..but there’s always a new
beginning..

some things are not meant
to be kept forever..
you know you have to stop
and let go when things
aren’t going right, and
everything you did is
unappreciated…
remember..

it is wiser to be alone but
happy..
than with somebody who do
nothing while you do
everything.

Deppression makes some men insane. I was on a training camp that time to become a police officer. The training includes the sacrifice of not seeing your love ones for the whole training. The training will last for six months in the camp. I have a girlfriend before I went to the camp. With her permission, I pursue my training in the camp inspite of the reality of not seeing her for a long time. She knows that my dream is to become a police officer since I was a kid. After my second month of training in the camp, I tried to contact her via e-mail with the use of the computer in the camp’s office but she’s not responding on my e-mails. I decided to quit on my training and see my girlfriend because I was thinking that there’s something bad happened to her. She is more important to me than my dream of being a police officer.
After getting out of the camp, I immediately look for her and found out that she don’t love me anymore. She had her new boyfriend and that is why she’s not responding on my e-mails. I was so depressed that time because I lost the most important woman of my life. If she only knew how difficult my training was in the camp but I was able to become the most outstanding trainee because she’s my inspiration. After I quitted on my training, there is no chance of getting back in the camp. I lost my girlfriend and also my dream of becoming a police officer.Now I’m moving on making myself busy on my computer.

Selling of different kinds of vegetables is the primary source of income of our family.  My parents usually woke-up very early in the morning to prepare the vegetables ready for delivery in the nearby market place.  After they finished the work, my father together with my other sibling will bring the goods to the market and my mother will start cooking our meal for the breakfast.  In less that an hour my father and brother will arrived because they already sell the vegetables to our buyers.  And that is the time we will eat what my mother has cooked for us.  After having our meal, my family will go to the garden and plant it with varieties of vegetables so that we may be able to harvest abundantly the next time.

My family’s way of living is as simple as that.  We may not have the richness that other’s have but we have enough for all our expenses and for our studies.  And our parents taught us to pray daily and asked God’s guidance because we believed that without Him, everything is impossible.